How do you feel about communicating your desires and boundaries in your sexual encounters?

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What the community answered (53 answers)
  • I clearly express what I want and what I don’t, without feeling guilty.47%
  • I find it hard to say no for fear of disappointing or making someone uncomfortable.17%
  • I try to be assertive, but sometimes I doubt whether my “yes” is completely free.15%
  • I have not had sex11%
  • It makes me anxious: Verbal communication during sex feels uncomfortable or disrupts the mood.9%

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